assplay and me...

when i was a younger woman anything "ass" scared me...all i could think about was how bad it would hurt...some tried...yet i shifted always so that the target would be my pussy...in those days i only came when playing with myself...

i can't remember the first time my ass had a visitor...but i do recall the finger that sunk inside me felt amazing...it hurt...but not really...i was introduced to that "full" feeling...oh that full feeling...

moving on a few years...

kyle was the first person to fuck me in the ass...he was a fuck buddy...i wanted anal...so he obliged...admitting that he preferred pussy sex but would pop my ass cherry...on my hands and knees...kyle instructed me to back into his prick...he wasn't huge but kyle had some girth...he was gentle and didn't force anything and lubed up with some ky...i kept backing into him...before i realized it...kyle announced that he was "in"...IT DIDN'T HURT...he started moving slowly until he and i found a natural rhythm...fuck it felt great...my ass was filled and he fingered my clit...wheeeeeeeeee...i squirted all over that bitch...kyle slowly pulled out...quicker than a wink pulled off his condom and promptly came all over my lower back and ass cheeks...

now understand that i have a fairly high tolerance for things that others might consider painful...i don't want any ass virgins to go find the first big and hard thing they find and shove it in...ass fucking takes concentration and a bit of finesse...

the best way for me to explain why i love assplay is that when i have something placed or thrust inside my hole...it is like i am a virgin again...a nice big cock  (or whatever) spreading me...the tingle and heat...the sweet sting...i fucking love it...and even a cock that is not considered "BIG" feels huge in my hot asshole...*swoon*

more sundayboobs...

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toyfriend testing----nosy :)

toyfriend recently started to tweet...now if you don't know already...toyfriend is a body friendly adult toy manufacturer...the playthings from toyfriend are brightly colored and sculptured in fun and interesting shapes...bonus is that prices for toyfriends are quite reasonable...

during a recent tweeting blitz...toyfriend sent 6 of my followers (and me) a toy to promote the fact that the company was now on twitter...

i asked mr. shay (toyfriend's boyfriend) to pick something fun to send to me...i like surprises and generally enjoy mystery packages...

nosy is my first toyfriend...the package is cute and minimal...and the toys come with a battery so one can start playing asap....(yay)
nosy is a member of the "power toyfriend" group...

nosy and i got to know each other...first i rested nosy against my girl parts and tested to see which vibe i preferred...i usually am a fan of the steady heavy vibrate...i attempted the pulsations...but found myself right back with "heavy steady" and the feeling was good...the material is smooth...and the controls were easy to use (single button on the bottom)...i eased nosy inside me...attempting to see if nosy would be good for my squirty tendencies...well no...the hookish shape did not allow for g-spot stimulation at least for my body...what did work well was when i turned my new friend so that it's neck was stimulating my clit...ahhhhhhhhhhh...that's the stuff....

3 orgasms later...i give my new toy a big grin and a "thumbs up"...nosy was fun and felt good...the "heavy steady" vibe could be a touch stronger for me anyway...but everything else about this friendly toy was a treat...thank you toyfriend for sending me nosy... :)


"Nosy, is made of body-safe silicone, is waterproof, quiet and very, very powerful. Nosy also comes with two different speeds and three distinct pulsation modes for a great choice of sensations, and the batteries are included." --Toyfriend US.

on the hotel bed...

on the bed...leaning back...resting on my elbows...knees up...t-shirt...no bra...skirt...no panties...bare legs...warm and waiting...a few minutes pass...air flows under my skirt...touching my slit...tracing...thinking...what is next...closing my eyes...feeling soft curls swaying...licking my lips...knees spreading...skirt slipping to my hips...posed i wait...damp under my arms...salty and sweet scent reaches my nostrils...smiling...i smell of lust...

panther cuffs a review for babeland...

ok so first of all just so you all know...i am fairly new to any sort of bondage gear...i figured i could start with some help from my friends at babeland...as always my contact krista was great...we emailed back and forth and finally decided to start with these beauties...the panther cuffs...

the panther cuffs are made of a soft black leather...buttery on the inside and a little more tough on the exterior...they have silver toned studs and a not to huge "o" rings to help with restraining some lucky friend...krista also sent me a cuff connector too make the panthers into a sexy set of handcuffs...i must say i really like the look of these cuffs...i might wear them out to a club...i wonder if anyone will figure out my perv tendencies...(ha!)

when i received the panther cuffs and cuff connector i tried them on...the cuffs looked lovely on my wrists and on my ankles...the connector was easy to manipulate...and i was able to pull the panthers over my wrists and tighten them once they were there...(i liked this)...my partner is a big man...over 6 feet tall and 240 lbs...the cuffs fit his wrists easily...however he has not let me try them on his ankles yet...it appears that my partner does not trust me...:(...

my sweet boy and i tried the cuffs that nite...of course he made me the victim...smiling...he cuffed me around our jail bar like headboard...i felt all "damsel in distress" as my man teased pussy with his hands and nibbled my nipples...i figured since my legs were not being restrained i could always kick him if he started tickling me...(tickling is one of my hard limits and david occasionally ignores this)...as usual i digress...

we had a good time "testing" the panther cuffs...i think next time i would like to use two sets of cuffs...one for wrists and one for ankles...also i want to be the person doing the restraining...

in conclusion...i really enjoyed playing with these sexy but not overwhelming cuffs...they were comfy...and felt very sturdy...also there was a place to put a padlock if you really want to play rough...so many options...anyway loved the panther cuffs as usual thanks babeland...:)

specs:

• Cuff size: up to 10" length, 1.5" width
• Collar size: up to 18" length, 1.5" width
• Material: Leather