i imagine...(nsfw)

i imagine that you i are waking up...we are pressed together and you have begun to stroke my thigh...behind me i feel you waking up more...your hands moving about finding my breasts and squeezing...we were not facing each other...all sensation...your lips tracing my backbone...hands now kneading my ass cheeks...opening them...no faces...another hand between my thighs finding my pussy lips and sneaking inside...pushing back i ride your fingers...both of us groaning...hands moving more...i am spreading...you are easing inside me...back and forth...harder...my hips moving...because that is all i can move...you are gripping me so tightly...a final push...your cum takes over...soothes me...

rules of engagement...

my rules of engagement...

1. no means no no matter how many times asked...i generally do not change my mind
2. if i ask you something i am interested in the answer
3. grabbing is not permitted...(unless we are well acquainted and you would know this)
4. no name calling (unless we are well acquainted and you would know this)
5. no cyber sex (im not into it)
6. compliments are fine...but too many make me doubt your intent
7. no visible marks without permission
8. i can like you and not want to fuck you...its true i swear
9. no i will not send pink shots ever 
10. no you can not have my yahoo addy
11. don't message me without asking
12. don't be crude...not a turn on (unless we are well acquainted and you would know this)
13. no i do not believe you can pleasure me through twitter or dms
14. yes i appreciate you reading and looking...i am an exhibitionist
15. i am never a done deal...don't assume anything
16. understand you will probably never fuck me in real life or via cyber
17. i will not cam with you...(you are free to show me...but i will not return the favor)
18. i am a tease yes...
19. i am not judging your body
20. no unsolicited cock shots please
21. yes i am employed...and sometimes i don't feel like talking...
22. yes i like tweeting and talking...but i will not do anything that makes me uncomfy...
23. i am open sexually doesn't mean i will have sex with you...or even talk dirty

this list was made to not hurt your feelings but to let you know what i'm about...don't dm and ask if i was talking about you...i might be and i might not be...thank you for reading...

e[lust] #28

Photo courtesy of Delilah

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What makes me a woman? - It’s a stumper, this question. There must be something that makes me a woman. Something more than how I am perceived by others as I walk down the street. But what is the answer?

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There's pain and then there's pain (and then there's pain) -Part of what I crave in the second type of pain is the selfish sadism of the partner who continues despite my pleas. He does it because it arouses him, and he does it because I'll endure it for him.

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Sex Toys: Single or Partnered, there is no shame in owning them - There’s no fucking shame in owning your sexuality, in taking control of your own damn orgasm. Can you PREFER human contact and partnered sex to sex toys? Sure. You can prefer whatever the fuck you want. But don’t insinuate to me that owning a lot of sex toys is somehow bad or shameful.

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BDSM Advice Series: Bondage Tape

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Caning, energy and romance

Screw roses! I enjoy playing with Thorns...

Working Girl

Erotic Writing

A Trip to the Toy Store

Can I get into your knickers now?

Coffee Break

early afternoon

Elevator Shaft

Fogged-up Windows

Fucking Eli

FWB

I'll see you tonight...

One on One

Open By Night

Overtime

Rock Out With My Cock Out

Renewed Interest

Twenty/Fifty-Three

that little fucking game changer [part I]

the weekend away - Sunday

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Death By Bondage

Hypocrite, PA-Rant!

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Are My Nipples Getting The Correct Signals?

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My Take On Masculinity

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Sex and Catholic Schools

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Divine Oral Pleasure Lip Gloss (a review)

ahhhh a blowjob lip gloss...i was chomping at the bit to try this stuff...who doesn't like a beauty product that also boasts increased erotic sensation? the divine oral pleasure lip gloss comes in a tube/bottle and looks like any other lip gloss but promises an erotic surprise....

first off, i tried the lip gloss and it was thick...(not a bad thing)...and the taste was divine...somewhat like a sizzly strawberry...just applying the shunga to my lips made me feel sexy...plus the gloss gave a nice feel of moisture and a subtle shine...

next up...kissing with the gloss...:)...my helpful assistant agreed to let me makeout with him to "test" the sensation...he reported to me that it tasted nice and gave a little bit of a cool spicy feeling...did it make him all a flutter?..."nah...but we could keep trying..."...such a helpful soul...my assistant...

now to the main event...i applied the shunga lip gloss to my lips...and began to suck his cock..."do you feel anything...?" i asked..."um keep sucking"...moments later...my mouth full...i mumbled..."anything...yet..."...he answered kindly..."just your mouth"...we kept testing the product...my loyal assistant claimed no extra sensation other than my mouth...at that point he suggested i apply the gloss to his cock...a warning to my readers...don't do that...to my chagrin my assistant informed me that the gloss was a tad too stingy for his member...

so my beloved readers...my recommendation for the "divine oral pleasure lip gloss" great for the lips...not so much for the cock...kisses and thank you babeland for the opportunity to review this fun product...the "testing" was a kick...:)

my review for shunga arousal gel...kerpowwwwww.

the shunga arousal gel comes in sexy packaging...the box looks elegant and beckoning...and the black plastic bottle is unobtrusive...now, inside the box is a note...the note tells the buyer that everyone is different and will need a little or a lot of the gel to get that happy feeling...i took this to heart...

with the written warning in mind i decided that  a small drop didn't do the trick for me so i tried another helping...the 2nd serving of shunga definitely warmed up my pussy lips and clit...i massaged the gel all over my girl parts and it was like the 4th of july in my vulva...wowwy...the sensation of cool, hot, and spicy even...shunga was absolutely delicious...when i added a trusty vibe to the mix...the orgasms kept coming...

the scent of shunga arousal gel is a light and clean smell...with not much taste...this lack of taste and smell is a good thing for me...the only issue i had with the gel is that it got a bit sticky when i used more than a touch...otherwise...i loved it...:) thank you babeland for a STIMULATING product...

size: 1ounce
ingredients: Water, glycerin, propylene glycol, l-arginine HCL, hydroxyethol cellulose, damiana extract, DMDMH,   Sodium Benzoate, Peppermint Oil, Capsicum O.R., Vitamin E, Polyquaternium-7, Citric Acid

we are beautiful...(project)

i would like to start a project where i post pictures of my readers...(not hardcore but body positive)...so im going to throw this out to you, the readers...send me pictures of you...dressed, semi nude...whatever...faces or no....and i will post them under "we are beautiful" which depending on participation will be a continuing project...also this just occurred to me, self shots are really good...because we take pictures of ourselves and at least in my case...i take the best pictures of me...laughing...i will reserve the right not to post if i think a picture is not for this project...

i have always had body/looks issues and i think its time to glory in ourselves...if you would like to send me some photos and give me a name or no name...please do...press my "contact" button or "tweet" me...and we shall begin...do not worry about comments as i do moderate and i will not post anything that i find offensive...my commentors are always polite anyway...soooo shall we begin? kisses...missy

nipple tassel review for babeland...(nsfw)

yesterday i received the incognito nipple tassels from babeland...i don't think it is a surprise to anyone that i enjoy anything to do with nipples including nipple "adornment" or decoration....when i saw a picture of the nipple tassels on the babeland site...i really HAD to review these...

the incognito nipple tassels came in a fancy black box, and have a velvety bag for storage...(with room for other nipple jewels)...what a pretty gift for some lucky lucky person...:)

first of all...i love the look of these tassels...not too long...not too small...and they really do not show under a shirt...all anyone can see is a happy nipple outline...(yay)

now one very important detail,  to rock the adornments, the wearer will need wide awake nipples to hold the incognito nipple tassels on...also the wearer might need some help to attach...(a plus?)...i was able to put the tassels on myself but i always welcome assistance...

even though the tassels really didn't provide any "pain" sensation, they are attractive and comfortable...i did worry about the tassels falling off, due to the fact that i couldn't tell if they were on tightly enough...the tassels did stay on, but i am guessing that i personally will need to check their status fairly often...;)

have fun with these lovely pieces of "intimate" jewelry...i am fairly sure i will...;) thank you  babeland...these are very pretty and super sexy...:)

length- up to 3"
loop diameter- up to 1-1/5"
material- lambskin leather and silver or rose gold plate

looking forward/journal 2

july 12
this weekend i will try out my vodka infused gummy bears...the bears have been soaking in for 2 days so far...i have given them a taste...holy crap...strong...

and soon i will post my review for my new nipple "adornment" from babeland....i have not been in a great body state of mind...(it happens) so this means when i am feeling a little more confident i will post pictures and the actual review...it is interesting that i really appreciate most bodies...although lately (after some family pictures...where i felt my upper arms needed their own names)...i am feeling fug...i need to shake my blech feelings...i am a moody being...i will prob be ok in a few days...

july 13th
gummy bears look good...see for yourself...last nite trouble sleeping...so i tried some new arousal cream and jerked off with my trusty "pocket" rocket...with g-spot dildo inside me...was lovely...i was thinking about possible 3somes...and impossible 3somes...im feeling decent...shower this morning felt wonderful...and getting up earlier was a good thing...oh yes and my toes are silver...:)

june 14th
last night i watched the movie "secretary"...i couldn't remember much of the movie from when i first saw it...it was even more omg than i remember... i went to sleep with a nice tingly feeling...lately i haven't been able to get to sleep earlier than 1am lately...my brain keeps running and running...perhaps writing is my way of relieving my brain for a few moments...the/my writing tends to go in spurts...when i am less anxious or stimulated i generally don't write as much...i think tortured folks tend to be more interesting anyway...the "we are beautiful" page has begun...and some buddies sent me pictures...i hope to fill the page with all sorts of happy body parts...we shall see...i hate nagging but that won't stop me...;)

june 15th
it is 11pmish...and i am pmsish...eating wacky crap (you don't want to know trust me...lots of salty)...received some flattering comments on some of my posts...always nice...and collected some new pix for "we are beautiful" which was really nice...nilla bbq tomorrow...will test out vodka soaked gummies...also swimming...submitted a post for e[lust]...have another party next week...not nilla...:)...it should qualify as an "adventure" which will rate it's own post i hope...some dope sent me a fet inbox..."too bad you arent into random encounters as im in the u.s. a few times a year...not to sound banal but you do have nice ones..." ha...im glad i keep my fet profile usually for the entertainment value..."nice ones" that is classic...laughing

june 17th
im in serious need of some debauchery...like yesterday...good lord...jerking off just isn't doing the trick...thoughts of boys and girls...all in a happy pile of fun...

summertime dirty...

i am a woman that likes ac...however, the summer makes me all sorts of horny...maybe it is the sundresses i favor...or the sweat dripping between my breasts...thighs...neck...i become hyper-aware of my rising libido...when i manage to get my pale and burn ready body to the pool or beach...i watch and examine people as he or she passes by...imagining what is under the flimsy bathing-suits...i rarely readjust my suit...so if i have more cleavage than i should...oh well...at bbqs and other social gatherings...i drink fruity drinks and flirt...a lot...thinking of wet t-shirts...clinging material...fucking in hot-tubs...tipsy...flirty...horny...under dressed...if you see me somewhere...chances are you will have no idea that i might be fucking you in my thoughts...;)

kink labels....is there a place for me? (or someday my kink will come)

fetlife registration requires that one at least attempt to identify themselves in some way..."kinkster, fetishest, master...mistress...etc" then comes the profile part of enumerating ones preferences, titles, relationships...all of these labels and description is a tad daunting i think...(i settled on kinkster, heteroflexible, and "it's complicated"...

please keep in mind that i consider myself (despite grammar and punctuation mechanics) an academic...meaning i  will try and make sure whatever i scribe is accurate and sited...

1st stop- who do i like having sex with?
well i like having sex with people that i enjoy...okkkkkkkk....but do those people identify as male or female?....um what?...hmmmm....i do not want to piss anyone off...primarily i like cock...on occasion i indulge in some breasts and pussy...soooooooo am i bi?...queer?...i will go with heteroflexible...sound good?...alright, lets move on...

2nd stop-role?
um i am a teacher...i prefer to be on the receiving end of the action...do i want to beat the stuffing out of anyone?...sometimes...do i want someone to beat the crap out of me?...not so much...can i get off by doing both?...i guess...more than one thing gets me off....lets go with kinkster...whew...next....

3rd stop-how active am i?
jeez i work out a little...but that is not what the site wanted...i went with "live the lifestyle when you can"

4th stop- looking for?
no fucking clue...

ok blah blah blah...no random sex...i am curvy...don't add me if you are rude etc....

fetishes-(bulk adding available)
hmmm....time to freestyle i guess...
i like leather, lace lingerie, and stockings...(sometimes)...oral giving and receiving (righto)...peeing on someone or being peed on (eh)...bbc...(ok, i like british humor)...facials (um), ass to mouth (hell no)...bareback (nope)...animal husbandry (?)...feet...as long as they are clean...armpits...(hmmm that is a maybe)...fem dom...(i am really not sure)...scat (NO)...sex with strangers...(fantasy wise seems hot...reality wise that would be a no)...big tits...(sure)...humiliation...(depends)...breast and nipple torture (maybe?)...

good lord...this was turning into a thesis...i thank fetlife for trying to help me figure things out...as of today i believe that i am someone who like adventurous sex...and once again...i will reject the label before it rejects me...